CHEESCAKE!

August 21, 2011
by Vivek
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CMU Orientation: Days -2 and -1

Since my last check-in at Toledo, things have moved on, quite a bit. I have been in Pittsburgh for the last 36 hours or so, and so far, things are going great.

Now I do have a confession to make – my excitement levels at getting admitted to CMU, and getting the opportunity to come to Pittsburgh, were pretty underwhelming. I mean, sure, there was a wide grin on my face the day I saw my acceptance. But honestly, since then, excitement hasn’t bubbled and frothed over. I haven’t been skyrocketing around and ricocheting off the walls of my room. Heck, leaving my home country for the US left me unfazed as well.

But when I saw the sign on the Pennsylvania Turnpike which said “Pittsburgh – 2 miles”, it triggered a reality check of sorts in my mind. I was with my cousin and her family on the way over from Illinois, and then the elephant in the room, or to be more factually accurate, the Honda Odyssey, ambled forward. This was the last time I’d be in close proximity of blood relations in a while. And that’s probably a good thing for me. Not having someone around who is likely to constantly report back to a somewhat overbearing mother, or better still, not having said mother around to helicopter parent me, is a refreshing and welcome change.

Moreover, the drive in reminded me about my destination. CMU. Carnegie Mellon University. The name and the place which had bounced around my head in March, and had since settled down, now reactivated themselves in a frenzy of anticipation. Turning off the highway and onto Forbes Avenue itself was an important event. The shop facades didn’t really blur past, mainly because traffic did not allow any form of blurring whatsoever. But I was straining my neck trying to get a look at the place I’d be calling home for the next 4 years, at the very least.

After paperwork and check-in, and receiving my ID card, I started moving in. I realized that despite getting 2 large bags, 1 large carry-on, 2 cardboard boxes, 1 backpack and 1 guitar, I was relatively better organized than some of my fellow freshmen, who just had things piled up in their car boots. Yet, carrying it all up to the third floor of Boss House was a somewhat demanding task – one that left me drenched in sweat, and wishing for a shower.

So, after a quick lunch at the Red Oak Café (they served amazing vegetarian rueben) with my cousin et al, I was on my own. Which is approximately the same time that the Bobs of Thunder decided to give me, and the rest of the international students moving in that day, a friendly welcome with hail and a thunderstorm. Outdoor stairs were promptly converted to mini-rapids and sloping roads turned into little mountain streams ending in lakes where intersections used to be.

However, I braved the weather to get my meningococcal vaccine at Health Services, mainly thanks to my friend, Utkarsh’s uncle’s assistance in the form of a car ride to get to Morewood Tower was invaluable. That said, the route taken was circuitous thanks to roads being blocked off thanks to the freak weather. The entire experience earned me a clean chit from Health Services, which means I will not be evicted from my residence hall anytime soon. Oh, and I got a Garfield band-aid out of it. And sadly, my umbrella did not survive the downpour, which means I’ll be on the hunt for a replacement.

The rest of the day was actually just spent socializing, be it with fellow international students at the Ice Cream Social at the gym or with the Resident Advisors, Housefellows, Community Advisors and fellow residents in the residence hall itself. Sure, you do get to meet lots of people, but there is no guarantee that you will get all of their names on the first go, and vice versa. It’s not just about getting the names right, but also about retaining those names. I’m hopeless at all of this. I will be able to recognize people I’ve met, and remember the conversations I’ve had with them, but if you ask me to toss in their names to the conversation, and I’ll just want to stare at a wall and dribble.

Of course, since I was trying to be nice, and let my roommate, Juan, have a say in who got which bunk in the room (there’s one loft bed with a table and dresser underneath it, and a regular set of furniture too), I didn’t get to unpacking till late in the night. But after some rearranging, the room felt bigger, and by 2 AM I was done with unpacking. Happy that I found a home for all the stuff I got along.

The actual day of International Student Orientation began with coffee and muffins, which paved the way for a couple of solid welcome lectures for everyone, followed by a spot of immigration document processing. Oh, and because I had braved the rain for the immunizations, I was free in the afternoon to get myself a T-Mobile connection for my phone. 50$. Unlimited calling and texting within the US along with unlimited Internet at 2G speeds. And I’ll be shortly getting a solution for int’l calling at no expense, courtesy my cousin.

But the high point was definitely going to the Cheesecake Factory. Sure, it wasn’t the cheapest place to eat, but since it was part of this orientation activity called Restaurant Hops, I signed up for it. Also ended up making a number of friends who were exchange students at CMU.

CHEESCAKE!

Yes, that's whip cream, layers of chocolate fudge, peanut butter and more...

There was also a late-night screening of the movie, Inception, which should go a long way in explaining the lateness of this post (it’s past 3 AM here). It helped that the screening was delayed due to some technical difficulties, but it just meant that we got much more time to socialize than we would have. It was great that a number of non-international students managed to sneak in, even though they move in on Sunday.

Anyhow, it’s getting late, and I need to be up to help a roommate get his stuff in. Oh, and I’ll try to post soon.

(Oh and the reason why I’m not planning on mentioning everyone I met in person is because if I miss someone, they might get sorely upset about it)

A view of Lake Zurich, IL

August 19, 2011
by Vivek
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Checking in from Toledo, OH

Oh dearie me – so much has changed since the list time I opened my blog’s dashboard that I don’t even have the faintest clue as to where to begin. But since I am dead certain that my grasp over the recent past will drop substantially the farther back I go, chronologically, it would be wise to begin with the most recent items.

The setting: I’m alone (in a double room, which has the distinct odor of old socks, or it just might be my own feet…) in a hotel in Toledo, Ohio. It’s about 11 PM EST (that’s UTC -5), and I need to wake up by 6 to get going on my way to a place I will call home for the next 4 years. I’m traveling by road, with my cousin’s entire family, consisting of herself, her husband, and their 2 daughters (i.e. my nieces – who are 5 and 8 years old, respectively). Been on the road for about 7 hours now, with the monotony of the motorway broken only by Daft Punk on Sennheisers and Tom & Jerry episodes on the in-car entertainment system.

But that’s just a minor sit rep. There’s obviously a lot more changes where that came from. The fact that I’m no longer a citizen of the soil beneath my feet is one. The fact that this post is being typed out on a piece of aluminum with some silicon inside it is another. I haven’t texted anybody in over 2 weeks, and my thumbs are thanking me profusely for the sabbatical.

On a deeper note, there have been some other changes – the loss of immediate proximity to close family and companions being one. I’ll be the first to admit that I’m a social guy – I like to make friends wherever I go, and that, yes, I will be making loads (apart from the ones I’ve already made) at CMU. But not being able to be in as close touch with of my closest friends is going to be a bit of an issue till I get my hands on a decent prepaid plan for my Nokia and a Vonage line. Facebook, Skype etc are alternatives. Oh well, at least I can still receive texts on my Airtel number at no expense. Though only a handful of friends bother to text me anymore…..

Family? Yeah, I miss my parents, but not in the way you’d imagine. First and foremost, there are no heart-rending moments of homesickness. Neither are their breakdowns over the phone. There aren’t even any “I miss you“s in the conversation. But they realize that I’m missing when, say, for example, the set top box for the satellite TV decided to commit suicide. And I miss Mom’s nagging – the fact that she wasn’t around to prevent me from re-entering my cousin’s house to pick up my guitar (which I’d forgotten, and remembered about only once we set off) struck me as odd. (The logic behind  being nonexistent – it’s all superstition) I’m used to a world where restrictions are placed on me, which I proceed to wriggle out of. The lack of that white noise is oddly disconcerting.

Moving on, thought I’d make a few choice observations about my new habitat (hint: it’s the place that required me to board a 15-hour flight to get to)

  • All the power outlets just look like D: (that’s a frownie rotated 90 degrees clockwise)
  • The weather seems to be good (but then, this is between seasons, so to speak – things will get frigid soon)
  • The people seem nice and friendly (at least on the surface – oh, and no, I have not been subject to racial prejudice – yet)
  • There are way too many ugly-ass (and I really do mean that literally - but that’s just my opinion, not a fact) Chrysler PT Cruisers in this country
  • Pedestrians have first right-of-way (a shocking revelation, if you’ve lived in India all your life, where you are an insignificant peace of undead roadkill)
  • Phones are cheaper, once you get onto a soul-sucking 2 year contract with a service provider
  • There’s on-demand pornography on cable TV (not that I billed my cousin for any)
  • Walking about in your birthday suit in a YMCA locker room is perfectly acceptable
  • Food here can be extremely fattening if you don’t watch what you eat
  • Going down the initial drop of the Raging Bull at Six Flag, Great America, in the front row of the coaster, with my arms in the air, was one of the more exhilarating experiences of my life
  • I need to end this list right now…
Reaching CMU tomorrow at lunchtime for move-in. Need zombie-sleep. Now.
Due to a severe lack of free time, thanks to prepping for an inter-continental shift, jetlag, settling down, me babysitting my nieces, semi-unpacking and re-packing, visits to the local YMCA and more, the posts-per-week ratio has dropped drastically over the past few weeks, as has the overall integrity of the post structure and coherence of information relayed. Bear with me during these times of turbulence. Things aren’t going to get any better over orientation week at college.
(Oh, and Lake Zurich is a really beautiful place)
A view of Lake Zurich, IL

Unfortunately, the photo doesn't really do the place justice...

People walking down the steep trail

July 22, 2011
by Vivek
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The Peninsular Expedition: Day 12.1

The major stop-off-points on the way to the temple were covered with sheds, which meant that I managed to get to the place without considerable drenching. At about 3:30 to 4 AM, we arrived at the entrance to the temple complex. We had to deposit our sandals of course, since they weren’t allowed inside.

A hog I sighted while waiting at the gates of Sabarimala

There were about 5-6 of them roaming around...

We then had to wait in yet another shed with lots of handrails arranged in a manner to represent a huge serpentine queue. Except that people weren’t standing in queue, they were sleeping in it – the temple gates weren’t to open for another 90 minutes. People had arrived to wait in line with lots of bedding and some snacks, and things were pretty quiet by the time we arrived. This is where I set down my irumudi with the others, whipped out my phone, fired up Nimbuzz and spent a while chatting with some friends. There really wasn’t much scope for sleep on the cold hard, and possibly dirty floor. A couple of wild hogs walked past, presumably in line to see the idol, but I don’t think the rest of the pilgrims appreciated their presence, and they were usually shooed off immediately.

After 90 minutes of waiting, during which time dad managed to find time to catch a few zzzs on the ground with his back propped up against one of the handrail supports, the shed filled with the voice of Yesudas, who is a very famous playback singer in Kerala. He’s also a very ardent worshiper of Lord Ayyappa, and he claims that his first child was a product of his tireless devotion to the god – which reminded me of what I read about the way Ayyappan entered world as well.

This music blasting through the complex, along with several large firecrackers, are intended to serve as a not-so-subtle wake-up call for all the dozing devotees. Some rubbed their eyes, bought chukku kaapi (dry ginger coffee with some peppers in it) which serves as a very good restorative. I had a cup myself: and it simply burnt its way through my esophagus.

Pathinettapadi at Sabarimala (Source: www.rohiniayyappa.com)

Yes...those steps are perhaps the steepest bit of the entire climb... (Source: www.rohiniayyappa.com)

Soon the line was shuffling along and we reached the first checkpoint on the way: a small pile of burning camphor into which we threw one piece each. Then after climbing a series of steep steps, we came upon the first proper landmark – the patthinettam padi, which literally translates into eighteen steps. Each of the steps is supposed to signify several divine concepts which I can’t be bothered to research into. Find them here if you are so inclined.

Oh, and before you climb those steps, it is imperative to smash another coconut against the wall. That brings the tally up to…

Vivek – 3
Coconuts – 0

The main shrine and the immediate structures surrounding it don’t resemble a temple, so much so as an assembly line in a factory. At peak hour, the pilgrims must simply shuffle along in a tight queue, which itself takes a long and circuitous route before ending near the opening of the sanctum sanctorum.

Of course, getting there is a matter of patience (it’s a long queue), gentle persistence (all the “swamis” want to have a looksies) and balance (there’s an irumudi on one’s head all this time). Once you do get there, you are not allowed to linger longer than 3.2 seconds, and a policeman will usher you along before you’re eyes have had time to accustom themselves to the darkness that can be seen through the open doors. The traditional hundi box for donations has long been replaced by (wait for it), a large hole in front of the idol which leads to a (I kid you not) moving conveyor belt. Apparently, the cash does flow thick and fast at Sabarimala.

Just after the queue ends, you will see a vast cross-section of devotees milling around. Me? I had to stop for a while to let 5 particularly devoted followers pass. Pass, in the sense that they were rolling around on the floor, circling the sanctum sanctorum. I can truly appreciate how devoted they were and how strongly they believed in religion, even if I didn’t. Being an open minded guy, I appreciated what they believed in, but more so, it was their levels of dedication that truly struck me.

Once out of the meleé, it’s time to head over to one of the rest areas, where the rest of the items in the irumudi are unpacked. All the ghee from the sealed coconuts is poured into a container and taken to one counter. Next, all the rice is taken in a bag and subsequently deposited. Then, all the other stuff is similarly packed and whisked away. This didn’t need 4 people, so I managed to catch 4.2 minutes worth of sleep while waiting for my dad and uncle to do the necessary counter-queuing and such.

Then began a small tour of the remaining minor shrines within the temple complex: at the Malikapuram Temple, a rather amusing offering involved rolling a coconut around the shrine before literally scoring a goal in a corner, where another pile of coconuts with a similar life story awaited. This is made somewhat challenging by the fact that there are legs to avoid. But a perfectly shaved coconut rolls very well on the slippery stone floor.

Oh and before stepping down back towards the queuing shed, there was yet another coconut to be smashed. This was the last one I had, which made the score stand at:

A coconut

This poor guy, and 4 of its brothers and sisters met an unfortunate end...

Vivek – 4
Coconuts – 0

There were a number of other places to pray, the details of which I won’t go into. Save one.

Right outside the main temple complex, right after the initial queuing shed, there is a small mosque dedicated to Vavaraswami who was a saint who was a devotee of Lord Ayyappan. It is considered blasphemous for a swami to visit Ayyappan’s shrine, but not stop to pay his/her respects to the Vavaraswami. This now rare show of communal harmony is, in my opinion, something that could and should serve as a model for the rest of the world. Not only is Sabarimala open to all members of all religions, there are no restrictions placed upon caste or creed either. The only restriction being that on women aged between 10 and 50 years. There are multiple legends associated with Vavar, and I won’t delve into them.

People in plastic sheets

Yes...there are people under those sheets....

A spell of rain prompted the purchase of a bunch of plastic sheets to act as a shield against it. I have to say, dad and uncle did look rather comical in them.

On the whole, the trek down was much more fun than the trek down. Apart from the fact that gravity is on your side this time, it was about 7-8 AM by now, the sun was on its way up, and for once, I could properly see the steepness of the climb.

Yeah…it’s a wonder that no one fell, at least around me. I myself lost my footing once or twice, but luckily, the other foot came to the rescue immediately. Of course, this was nothing compared to, say, full on rock-climbing with a harness and all, but then again, these pilgrims weren’t exactly thrill seekers. Just everyday folk trying to find some meaning in their lives.

People walking down the steep trail

Yes, it was getting pretty crowded by the time we were headed down...

If anything, the wait for dad et al to catch up was even longer this time round, as a long trek up had impacted dad’s ability to use his legs properly, I guess. On the plus side, this did give me a lot of time to admire the scenery, and by Bob, what a view I caught…

Panorama from Sabarimala

One of those rare, beautiful sights you just can't get enough of...clouds above and clouds below...wow...just wow...and a seemingly endless expanse of green...

It’s a view like this that got me thinking: if I were on a normal non-religious trek up a mountain, without the bustling crowds that Sabarimala attracted, and if the end result was the opportunity to catch a view like this – I’d be astonishingly stupid not to come back for more. But because this is Sabarimala, I’ll have to find another place, hopefully, someplace that will be equally satisfactory. I did not go to Sabarimala with any intention of religious or spiritual fulfillment. What I got instead was some exercise, fresh air and a reminder of life away from the cities that I’ve become accustomed to. I probably won’t be coming here again, but I’ll treasure this picture, because it’ll remind me of the experience like nothing else. Indeed, this was not different from the view I saw on most of the way back home. Endless rolling mountains and clouds.

The ride back home involved sleep. There hadn’t been any for a long time, and the trek did drain you of some energy, especially if you hadn’t had a square meal along the way. Homecoming was preceded by a short visit to the temple where we could take off our malas. Oh, and one last coconut was smashed.

Vivek – 5
Coconuts – 0

After lunch, I was scheduled to got my aunt’s place in Velavoor (which is where I’m writing this post from today), but decided I could afford myself a little nap. Hey, I had caught barely 5 minutes of sleep in the past 33 hours, so I was a bit tired. Unfortunately, that snooze turned into a 5 hour long siesta, and by the time I woke up, it was far too late to go to Velavoor. 5 missed calls from my uncle too…probably to ask if he should come pick me up yet. Ooh burn.

P.S. Read this too.